Sanctuary
- Wedding Use:
The sanctuary
will seat 100 people.
We
recommend that you name a wedding manager
to organize all the details of your wedding.
This person should be present at rehearsal
and service, and NOT a member of the wedding
party. Duties include seeing that candles
are lighted, making sure participants
are in place in a timely fashion, running
errands, etc. This makes for a more relaxing
wedding experience and is extremely helpful
for all involved. Cahill UMC can provide
a wedding coordinator at extra charge.
The
Rehearsal:
The
rehearsal provides the opportunity for
persons to become familiar with the worship
order and the physical arrangements for
the wedding. It is important that all
persons who will have a part in the wedding
ceremony attend the rehearsal. These include
the bride and groom, attendants, parents
of the bride and groom, and the ushers.
Please ask the attendees to be on time
or early as the rehearsal will begin promptly
at the designated time and conclude in
1 hour or less.
Ushers:
The
comfort and ease of family and friends
depends greatly upon the poise and organization
of those who are selected to usher at
the wedding. It is a good rule to have
one usher for every fifty (50) guests.
The usher should greet the guests warmly,
may offer his/her arm to the woman and
show the family or group to a seat with
good order and dignity. They should attend
the rehearsal in order to become familiar
with the floor plan of the church and
discuss with all concerned about the final
plans for the wedding. The ushers should
know the location of the restrooms and
what to do in case of an emergency.
After
the ceremony has started, guests should
not be escorted down the center aisle
of the sanctuary, but may be seated (by
the usher) in such a manner as to avoid
interruptions and disturbance, along the
side aisles.
We
recommend that you do not use any of the
groomsmen as ushers so the usher(s) will
be at the back of the church before and
during the entire service.
Photography:
In
order that the complete wedding ceremony
in the church may attain its highest and
most meaningful significance, there are
certain practices which are to be observed.
We consider the wedding to be a sacred
ceremony which should be regarded with
quiet reverence. We do not want the solemnity
of the occasion to be marred by flash
bulbs or photographer’s distracting
movements. There are to be no Gallery
taken in the sanctuary during the wedding
ceremony. After the ceremony, everyone
may take all the Gallery desired. Guests
who arrive with cameras should be advised
by the ushers that no Gallery are to be
taken until after the ceremony. Video
may be taken of the wedding, but the camera
must be stationary and unattended. Photography
session after the wedding should not exceed
30 minutes.
Music:
Music
is an effective part of the wedding ceremony.
The selection of music must be appropriate
to a service of worship. Secular and popular
music is not permitted, nor is taped music
allowed in the wedding service. These
songs are more suitable for the reception.
Our
church organist is available to play for
your wedding at additional charge. The
church organ is not available for use
if our church organist is not used. The
piano, however, is available.
Dressing
Room:
The
nursery and one of the classrooms in the
fellowship hall are available for the
bride and groom to dress for the wedding.
Candles
and Decorations:
Only
non-drip candles or votives are to be
used. All decorations, flowers and equipment
must be removed from the sanctuary immediately
following their use unless other provisions
have been made. For instance, you may
want to leave some of the flowers for
Sunday service at the church.
We
have some decorations that have been donated
from other weddings that you may use if
you wish.
Pastoral
Services:
Our
pastor will be glad to perform your wedding
at additional charge. If you have another
pastor you would like to perform the wedding,
we request that he/she communicate with
our pastor prior to the wedding date.
Please
throw birdseed or blow bubbles as the
wedding party exits the building. No rice,
please.
General
Rules: